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November 2011

1 post

Getting serious?

With graduation rapidly approaching, and myself still not even signed up to take NCLEX or to get my license, I’m feeling the crunch to simply focus on the next two weeks academically.  I am thankful that my family has been chill about not telling me that I need to hurry up and figure wedding plans out.  Honestly, I know things will come together as I want them to for a large extent, and the rest will work itself out just fine.

However, at the same time I do feel a desire to start picking up my blogging again and looking through my wedding-related bookmarks.  After all, we do have a deposit down on our venue so the date is set: September 14th, 2012.  It’s a Friday, which ended up being $1500 cheaper, so I told A’s mom to seriously not worry about the date and do it then.  I guess the plan right now is to have our ceremony at their house and then the reception at the winery.  Which will work out well because our photographer probably will be more than willing to go down the road and take pictures at the winery as well.

I guess I can go update a few things on my to-do :P

Nov 26, 2011

May 2011

5 posts

DIY Velcro & Felt Poem Creator

Presenting…a felt poem creator!  

Similar to magnetic poetry, this little board can hold words for creating prose.  I plan on using it as one of our fun attractions at our vineyard reception.

First of all, please bear with me as this is my first attempt at a tutorial.  I am the type of crafty person that chooses the materials that speak to me and run with it, so many of my creations are on the fly without much structure.  If things seem like they weren’t planned, they likely were not!  A trip to Wal-Mart with my credit card resulted in bargain craft shopping and this project.

For this you will need:

  • Glue, scissors, and a permanent marker
  • Felt (mine had sticky backing)
  • Cork board
  • Wire (I used green floral wire)
  • Sparkly decorative pieces (such as these butterfly spangles and stickers)
  • Colored cardstock/thick paper (I get the kind in the scrapbooking aisle)
  • Velcro circles
  • Push pins

STEP ONE: Form your wire hanger.  This will be what holds up your cork board.  I coiled mine into a twisted pattern.  If you make it a little tight, that’s okay, because you can pull it apart and make it looser later on.

You can use a push pin to create a hole for the wire near the top of the cork board.  Make sure you give yourself enough room for the wire to hold.  If you put it too close to the edge, the wire can tear through the cork board.

After you put the wire through the cork, pull through so there is enough slack to wrap it around and secure.  Make sure the excess wire slack is pointing inward to prevent injury (can also cut or round off).

STEP TWO: Apply decorative pattern from card stock.  I chose this piece of card stock for my design because I wanted a semi-sophisticated polka dot pattern.  However, you can choose any shape you like.  

Cut out as many shapes as you wish to use and arrange to test out your spacing.  I wanted 5 rows, and for me it worked out to be 18 circles that I had to cut out.  You want to leave room between the shapes so that you are able to place pieces of felt.  Glue your shapes to the cork board.

I did this because I was going for a particular look and wanted the cork board to be visible.  You could also alter the look of your poem board by applying the sticky back felt/gluing plain felt to the cork board before placing your shape design.  Either way is fine.  (If you choose to place the felt before the shapes, you can skip step three.)

STEP THREE: Add felt pieces.  The felt pieces are what will allow the words to “stick” to the cork board for the guests to create their own poetry.  I chose white and as mentioned above, I had self-adhesive felt which made this part of the task much easier.  

I cut out long thin strips of the felt that would comfortably fit between my circles while still showing the cork. They’re not perfectly even, and that’s ok!

STEP FOUR: Decorate and make header.  This part could have been sped up for me if I had a glue gun.  While I generally don’t like using glue guns on paper and the like, it is good for using on sequins, like the butterflies I used.  It was a bit of a pain using white craft glue.

The header itself was made from felt on the bottom, then white card stock on top of colored card stock (all glued together).  I left the backing on the sticky felt for this part and secured it with push pins so that the header was still able to be moved around/removed for other purposes.

 STEP FIVE: Make word bank.  Take a section of felt and cut it to desired size.  I made mine the same width but shorter length than my cork board.  Use wire and same technique in STEP ONE to attach felt to bottom of the cork board.  I found that using a push pin to create a hole and leaving the sticky backing helped me to thread the wire through the felt.

Remove the sticky backing from the felt and place card stock cut to size on back.

Trim off extra edges.

STEP SIX: Make words.  The words were simple to make.  I wrote the words in by hand in permanent marker on white card stock, then glued on top of colored card stock.


Using the strip with stiff backing (not the fuzzy backing) from the velcro strips kit, place one strip on each word.  Now they’ll easily hang out in the felt word bank.

The final result is fun.  My fiance stopped by the poem creator board this morning and looked at it for a good five minutes.  He found it to be really intriguing and wanted me to make more words.

Bonus: the cost is fairly low.  The cork board was around $6 for 4 pieces, so $1.50 per piece.  Packs of card stock are $5 for 50 pages, and I used 3 pages, so $0.30.  Velcro strips can be pricey, but I got 15 for around $3 (you don’t need industrial strength).  Wire, stickers, and butterfly decorations I found on Wal-Mart clearance for around $2 each.

Grand total is about $12-15 (for crafty people who already have supplies and won’t be out the extra money).  If you bought everything just to use it for this project, it could run you closer to $20.

Feel free to use and/or modify!



May 19, 2011
May 16, 2011
Possibly a new venue?

Well, after my epically long post about getting married about A’s parents’ house, it’s possible that the plan has changed again.  It went from a ceremony and reception there, to maybe just a ceremony there, to maybe the ceremony and reception being at the vineyard instead.  The good news is that I’m fine with that, really.  I originally wanted a vineyard wedding to begin with, so I’m actually heading more in the direction of what I originally wanted.  I really love A’s parents’ house and the landscape surrounding it though, and I think it would be a great setting for either engagement pictures or pre-ceremony bridal party shots.

Here is the new possible venue:
http://www.loversleapwine.com/weddings

The pros: 

  • Vineyard setting
  • Provide an array of services
  • Bathrooms and indoor seating

The cons:

  • No liquor, and we have to use their wine
  • Vendor choices may be limited

I’ve sent them an email for now to see if they have a generic brochure or a list of rates for services, but I plan on calling and making an appointment to see them and meet in person at some point soon.

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April 2011

5 posts

Apr 30, 2011
Apr 30, 2011
On utilizing our parents' house for a venue

So, after finding out that my roommate from college and one of my cousins is getting married at the venue I was considering last year, I started thinking about how badly I didn’t want to get married there anymore.  I had originally planned for an outdoor wedding, but everywhere I turned the possibilities were pigeonholed into two  types: “classy” picnic or overpriced vineyard.  I really loved the idea of getting married in a vineyard, but it’s way outside of my budget based on many things.  I read too many bad reviews of local vineyards to make me want to make an effort to work with them.

Cue the idea being thrown around about having the wedding ceremony and reception at my FMIL’s house.  Her and Andrew’s father own a good portion of land around their house, including a deck and garden area.  They also bought the field on the left side of the house that separates them from a growing subdivision, and it would make a perfect area for parking.  The land is relatively flat already and wouldn’t need any work for those purposes.  Plus the backdrop is just beautiful and I really think the trees would start changing and the flowers would be pretty by September.  Right now I’m working with red, yellow, black, and turquoise I believe for my colors.  Andrew discussed the idea of planting sunflowers with them, which made me so excited!

But a couple of days ago I started looking up tent prices because, if nothing else, we HAVE to have a tent.  A dance floor, fine china, and silverware may go by the wayside if the budget doesn’t allow it, but a tent is a necessity.  And my heart kind of dropped at the prices because it seemed so expensive.  I mean, our venue costs for the ceremony and reception was going to be less than the cost of this tent at $1000.  And I’m trying to do things wayyyy on the cheap, so anything over $500 I take another look at closely.  When my fiance came home, I told him about the price and expressed worry at everything costing more even though we’re having it on their property and aren’t paying to rent it.  He brushed off all of my concerns and said he wanted to really make it work, and that we’d ask around and negotiate and make sacrifices where necessary.  It really is where I’d like to get married and it has a lot of good elements to it, so I think him saying that really gave me the push I needed to start figuring things out.

So, I started wrapping my head around planning this wedding at their house and made out a budget based on estimates for 150 guests.  I haven’t finalized a guest list, and won’t know the rough estimate through RSVPs for awhile, but I’m guessing about 75-100 of that will come, especially with it being out in Lawrenceburg, and it will make for it being a more intimate event (what I want).  So with 150 guests, and all of the little expenses accounted for, and estimating high, I came out with a budget of $10,797.

Honestly I almost barfed.  I know that his parents are going to help us out, and I’m sure that my mom will actually help pay for *something* (I’m hoping to sell her on the idea of paying for my rehearsal dinner, which I want to have at Bd’s Mongolian Grill and for 30 people shouldn’t exceed $500), and my dad I know wants to help financially…but $11k is so much more than I want to be spending.  I feel like I’m not even doing anything crazy extravagant and yet I’m still spending a shitload of money.  However, I also feel better about the fact that my expenses seem reasonable, and with high estimates, they shouldn’t be too hard to execute.

It also begs the question - if we’re estimating $11k on wedding costs, what’s left for a honeymoon?  Here’s to hoping the guest list estimate of 150 is way off …although I think I would be willing to pay the money if people really showed up!

Apr 26, 2011
Apr 26, 2011

March 2011

5 posts

Mar 30, 2011
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Mar 23, 2011
An in-depth analysis of Rebecca Black's "Friday"

solastalgia:

I have too much time on my hands. Click “read more” to read the commentary…

 

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Funniest damn thing I’ve seen in awhile.

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February 2011

8 posts

Some progress.

So in case any visitors to my blog never check the right hand side, let me make you aware of the lovely link I have over there that keeps my partially sane.  It’s know as the “Wedding To-Do!” and it is my extremely brief to-do list related to wedding planning.  I was able to finally get some things started on the list.  Refer to bolded/italicized items for things that I’ve made progress on.  Whenever they are done (omg, I just realized these won’t be done for a really long time), they will be crossed out like so.

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Feb 27, 2011
Feb 27, 2011
Wedding Cake Toppers!

Yes, despite doing a cupcake tower, I still want wedding cake toppers because they’re adorable.  Potential candidates to follow:

How adorable are they???  I love their skinny legs most of all, and I could customize the colors.

The missing piece to the gap?  D’awwwwww.  How sweet.

Okay we all know how much I love penguins.  I see this with a sunflower instead of the rose and it’s perfect.

I love giraffes.

Awww, look at their little tails and paws.  I love kitties.

Did I mention how much I love penguins?  Beautiful but sadly $120 is too much for me.

Feb 25, 2011
Shoes (and a bag) from Modcloth

I’ve started getting a little out of hand with looking at shopping things related to the wedding, but here are some general cute things that have caught my eye recently:

Shoes from ModCloth.  Very cute and whimsical, and I want something like this if I go with a shorter dress.  They also are within my blue and red color patterns.

Adorable purse that is similar in style to the shoes above.  More Modcloth love.

Cherry heels from Modcloth.  I like the design of the heel especially, and the colors fit.  There is also a really interesting bottom to these heels if you click the link to look.

And now, although I definitely want heels for the ceremony, are a pair of flats from Modcloth.  I loveeee the little balls on top.  I’m thinking of wearing flats at the reception just so I can dance…compromise shoe?  Only $45

Feb 24, 2011
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